The 5 Most Important Tips for Sugar momma dating younger men

We all make mistakes. Nobody’s perfect, but there are some mistakes that you can avoid making if you’re careful. The ones that are obvious pitfalls and yet so many people keep falling into them. When it comes to different kinds of dating, particularly when it comes to age gap relationships, many people lack the necessary instincts to not fall down into pitfalls and end up ruining their relationships. Whether you’re a cougar or a cub, you can easily make mistakes.

When it comes to finding a sugar momma, cubs will make the same mistakes over and over again. The big problem with finding a sugar momma isn’t that the cougar sugar momma are too hard to please or that their expectations are high. If they’re going to be helping you to support yourself, then it’s perfectly natural that their expectations were high. If the roles were reversed and it was an older man looking for a younger woman, would we think that the expectations were too high? Probably not. So for a cub who is looking for a sweet older cougar to be their sugar momma, here are the five most common mistakes that a cub can make. Commit them at your own peril.

1) Don’t forget that your Sugar Momma is a person.
A greedy cub will go into this problem forgetting that beyond being rich and successful, their sugar momma  are still women. Now not everyone makes this mistake, but if you’re expecting to have a sugar momma who just gives out money and sexual favours for little in return, you’ve got another thing coming to you. Sugar mommas are sugar mommas for a reason and that reason isn’t because they want a grown man child to take care of.
2) It’s not all about the sex.
Sex is great and maybe you will be the lucky cub, where the Sugar momma of your dreams is only looking for sexual favours. The truth is that most sugar mommas are looking for some companionship too. If you want to have a sugar momma and be the cub that she keeps around, then you’re going to have to learn how to be a good companion as well. This means being good company and not putting your needs first.
3) You can’t put your own needs first.
Of course there will be times when you need to do so and we’re all human, so there are going to be days when you just need to make sure that your own needs are being seen to. The problem with wanting your own way all the time is that it’s not going to work. Your sugar momma is the one who is helping you out financially, so you need to ensure that you’re going to take care of her in the other ways that you can. Where your limits are for this are up to you.
4) You need to set limits to your interaction.
Are there things that you absolutely won’t do? You need to make that clear from the very beginning. Maybe you can’t stand dancing or have a phobia of crowds. If you’re looking for a sugar momma who is used to going to a ton of parties, then this is not going to work out well for you as a cub. Don’t make the mistake of biting off more than you can chew because that will just end up with everyone being disappointed in the end.
5) Don’t lie about your credentials.
This isn’t a job interview and it’s not a place where you can fake it until you make it. Cougars are smart and sugar mommas are not going to put up with being jerked around by a cub no matter how smart the cub thinks that he is. If you make promises, then keep them. If you’re not looking for a long term relationship, don’t find a sugar momma who is searching for that. It might be tempting in the short term to just lie about what you’re looking for and come clean later, but it’s hard to hide your true intentions from people and your sugar momma is going to catch on.